When I decided to move away from home I had the intention of moving back after a year.
I told myself that a year was the max amount of time that I wanted to spend away from my home and my life. I saw my move as an interim from what I was currently doing back home in San Francisco and that I would move back refreshed and ready to kick ass again.
I never thought that after a year not only would I have a bunch of new career options, but that I wasn’t in a rush to come back home again. Click here for an update
Things happen in life that force you out of your comfort zone and lead you to achieve greatness.
I remember when I was 23 years old my parents kicked me out of my house because they thought I was being unambitious. It was more like I wasn’t achieving the success that they wanted and expected me to achieve.
Nonetheless in less than a year I had started my own business, re entered college and within two years had graduated from University all while working 30+ hours a week.
Four months later I moved to the Bahamas, no job prospects, and didn’t know anyone. I was devastated to say the least. Gone were the days of a full schedule of clients, classes and activities. My new life felt purposeless. I went from being the pocket rocket, juggling a fun busy schedule, to having way too much time to think about how I hated it here and wanted to move back home. These are my ten tips for moving abroad.
Since home, was just a plane ride away.
I celebrated my first birthday in the Bahamas 🙂
I began this blog because I’ve always enjoyed writing. I had a self-run newspaper when I was younger, but a lot of my passions fizzled out as I got older and I focused on my social life. Don’t follow my lead. I stopped writing, creating, I stopped painting, playing music (I knew how to play three instruments).
I’ve never thought of myself as a creative person, up until recently when I reevaluated what I’ve been doing, and realized how I actually am.
I began this blog in May. And it’s been a tremendous journey.
Related: Why I started my blog
In my realm of fitness I found myself being a bit of a therapist day to day, but my words only reached my clients. So I thought “hey maybe I Can help other people”, all while helping myself. I need “something to do.” It took a while to come up with a name for my blog but I ultimately knew what focus I wanted to have.
- I’ve been featured on Medium.com’s homepage for “My Expat Life the Story Continues”
- Hired by HerDaily.com as a writer and Social Media Manager
- With features on ModernBrownGirl, Daily Vitamina, SheUnplugged, Fortem Sportswear and Youneedtribe.com
And I’ve even made some great connections here in the Bahamas (totally unplanned). Which was a result of me just supporting the work of other creative women like myself.
In a conversation that I had with a colleague a few weeks ago, I came to the realization that I’ve done some pretty scary things in my life. I left what was a safe and comfortable job to establish my own business and I left my secure business and life to venture to a new world with new obstacles and opportunities.
This past year has certainly not been easy. And sometimes I really do miss home. But I wouldn’t be who I am today without it.